Saturday, August 13, 2011

Does this guy like me?

None of this indicates that he likes you. I treat a lot of girls that I don't like like this, just because they're friends. If he were a girl and you a guy, I might say yes, but we guys work a little differently. If he *talks* to other girls the same way, and only treats you differently in other ways, odds are he's attracted as a friend but not romantically. This is going to sound bad, but if you're attractive, go for it. Generally for a guy, friendship + physical attraction = perfect match, romance be damned. Once things progress, that aspect of the relationship may or may not mature into something more romantic. Again, this is going to sound bad, but if you're not attractive, he probably just likes you as a friend. In any case, though, feel free to bring it up. One thing girls have a problem with is trying to hint at questions like this; we guys CANNOT take a hint, at all. We just don't pick up on it. Feel free to be direct. Ask him point blank, do you like me? If he does, great. If he doesn't, well, if he's a good guy, he'll let you down easy and make things too awkward or let it effect your friendship. But be sure you're prepared for either answer.

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